Tuesday, January 31, 2017

The 49-Hour Experiment

Last weekend we officially lost our minds. For years we resisted the temptation: we made excuses, we changed the subject, we bargained with our children, we ignored their pleas. Finally, we could take it no more. We threw in the towel, we gave up the ghost.

We got a dog.

Joshua first asked for a dog before he could form complete sentences. For a while we were able to put him off with all the usual excuses, but then Caleb came along and they ganged up on us. The pressure became so intense, we finally took leave of our senses and began the hunt for the perfect dog. We preferred to rescue a dog but had some limiting requirements: small, hypoallergenic, housebroken (because who has time for that?!), and good with kids. With these severe limitations, we felt pretty safe that such a dog does not exist.

We were wrong.

With the help of an adoption specialist at a local shelter, we located a dog that seemed to fit the bill. On Saturday we went to meet her. The shelter was crowded, small, and very smelly, so you know Joshua was ready to leave about 2.4 seconds after we arrived. We were escorted into a small room where we met a few dogs, including the one we came to see. While it was not love at first sight, we liked her enough to choose the "rent to own" option the shelter offers - pay a small fee, take the dog home for a two week trial-run, and then either complete the adoption or return the dog with no strings attached. In hindsight, I think we would have agreed to just about anything to escape the confines of that tiny, stinky, hot room.

We came home to prepare for our new addition. Beds, crates, toys, food, collar, leash, treats, blanket. Fellow shoppers at Petsmart congratulated us like we had just given birth. I had no idea there were so many different varieties of dog food to choose from and stood paralyzed on the dog food aisle until someone took pity on me and told me what to get.

MANY dollars later we were all set. I took the boys to get the dog from the foster family on Sunday afternoon around 4:00. We were continually amazed at her sweet disposition all evening. She played fetch, she sat by the door when she needed to go out, she was quiet and unobtrusive as we went about our evening treatments and chores. I couldn't believe our luck. When Darrell got home from work, we chuckled when she growled at him before quickly submitting to his doting attention. She curled up in my lap while we watched TV and slept in the chair in our room that night as if she always had done. I tried very hard to ignore the allergic itch in my nose and the tickle in the back of my throat. This dog was a keeper!

Monday was an exciting day of sharing our news with friends at school. We wondered if she would truly have no accidents during the day and we looked forward to her greeting us when we got home. Once again we marveled at her training as we swept the house looking for "surprises" and found none. I intentionally dismissed the return of the itch almost immediately upon entering the house. Our new dog seemed excited for her afternoon walk and eagerly explored the small park close to our house. We heard her ferocious bark for the first time when we encountered a neighbor, but felt only grateful that she was already protective of our family.

You can imagine my surprise when she tried to eat Caleb just a few hours later.

I was sitting in bed reading a book, our new wonder-dog curled in my lap, when Caleb came in the room to tell me goodnight. Without provocation, her lip curled back and she bared her teeth, the hackles rose all along her back, and she let out a vicious yelp that shocked us all into paralysis. Caleb's startled sock feet found no traction on our hardwood floors and as he went down, the dog launched herself out of my lap, snapping and snarling, fully intending to attack my second-born. As he scrambled to his feet, his terrified, blood-curdling scream bounced off the walls and broke the trance. Darrell grabbed Caleb while I grabbed the dog. Scolded, she instantly went silent but the damage was done.

From his room, Joshua said quietly, "I told you we shouldn't get a dog."

Thanks, kid.

Less than an hour later, she threatened the same behavior when Joshua came into our room while we were watching TV. Nope.

I thought it best to have her sleep in her kennel that night but she would have none of it. Darrell was worried about her being loose in the house while we were trying to sleep and I had to agree with him, but after a half-hour of whining, whimpering, and barking, I relented to let her sleep in the chair in our room. Darrell and the boys barricaded themselves in their rooms, leaving me alone with the dog. She wasn't content to sleep in the chair, however, and wound up sleeping curled against my back. Did I mention the dog snores? Loudly? Even the bathroom fan and a pillow over my head couldn't completely drown out the noise. I found it darkly hilarious that we were being held hostage in our own home by a small, four-legged despot. 

Caleb and I returned the dog to the foster parents' house (and their five other dogs) this afternoon around 5:00. The dog was happy to see her former doggie friends. Caleb was happy to say goodbye to the dog.

While texting the foster mom our sad news that the trial period had come to an abrupt end, I told Darrell how sad I was to waste the money on this experiment in pet ownership.

"Oh, no." said my wise husband. "That money was not wasted. That money was a worthwhile investment in the 'we don't need a dog' fund."

How right he is. We won't hear another word about getting a dog anytime soon. 

Parenting win. 

Wednesday, August 17, 2016

Sprinkle Family Update

So, so much has happened since my last post. Some good; some bad; and some very, very ugly.

In May we had our most spectacular Great Strides event yet. The Atlanta Great Strides raised more than $2 million! I am still in awe of the $25,000+ our team raised and the overwhelming number of friends and family who turned out to support us. Wow! Great Strides is my favorite day of the year and I am without the words to express my gratitude to all of our supporters.

We had, hands down, the best summer EVER. In June we traveled to St. Augustine Beach for a week of family vacation. We had an awesome time! It was Caleb's first stay in a hotel and I'm not sure what impressed him more - the ocean view or the hotel amenities! My favorite moment was watching the sun rise on the beach. The glory of God's creation at the dawn of a new day never ceases to take my breath away.

Caleb went to the emergency room twice this summer - once for croup (he couldn't breathe) and once for stitches (he needed eleven). I swear, that boy is determined to turn all my hairs white. The good news? He hasn't been on antibiotics for respiratory congestion since early February. That's SIX months, my friends. He has never gone that long in his life. The full dose of Kalydeco appears to be having a significant, positive impact on his overall health. Here's hoping the streak continues!!

Just this past weekend Joshua was baptized at our church, showing the world his intent to follow Jesus all the days of his life. I am so proud of him. If he could go directly to the mission field today I think he would. His heart for people and his passion for justice are enviable. I can't wait to see what God has in store for him!

Still recovering from Sunday's extreme "high" we find ourselves in something of a valley today. After visiting with our pediatrician this morning, we are now exploring a probable diagnosis of neurofibromatosis (type 1) for Joshua. Although his symptoms are very mild, he does meet at least two of the diagnostic criteria, all that is necessary for an official diagnosis. We have been referred to the NF clinic here in Atlanta for further testing; the earliest we can get an appointment is April 2017. NF is neither life-threatening nor life-shortening, but a diagnosis will allow for close following and early intervention when (if) symptoms arise. Puberty can also impact the expression of symptoms. As we navigate this next year with him, I covet your prayers.

We know that all things work together for good, for those who love the Lord and are called to his purpose. We also know that we can rejoice when trials come our way because the Father is already in tomorrow and he knows how this story ends. He has carried us through the valley before; we have faith that he will do it again.

Thank you for your continued prayers, love, and support. We are truly grateful.

Click here for more information about neurofibromatosis.

Sunday, March 20, 2016

Reality Check

Last week I was invited to participate in a lecture at Emory University on the topic of cystic fibrosis. Dr. Nael McCarty, head of the McCarty Lab at Emory and my favorite "miracle maker," spoke for two hours on the mechanics of CF, it effects on the body, and the stark realities of its degenerative progression leading to death in early adulthood. At the end of his presentation, I shared my perspective as a CF mom, focusing on initial reactions and early experiences. Telling our story is always difficult and I am usually prepared for the emotional fallout.


Hearing in cold, clinical terms the realities of this disease, I was brought low. CF negatively impacts SO MANY functions in the body it is a miracle our loved ones survive as long as they do. As I listened to Dr. McCarty's words, I could only see Caleb's face. My precious son, slowly dying from the effects of this vicious disease. We still lose too many too early and I can do so little to stop it.

I am grateful for Dr. McCarty's invitation to speak from a mother's heart. He understands so well the importance of putting a face on this work and I will gladly speak to any group he invites me to join in the future. As hard as it sometimes is, I know the difference telling our story can make.

I cannot say "thank you" enough to Dr. McCarty, his team of scientists, and countless others working tirelessly to help us battle this disease. I am overcome with gratitude when I think about the people who have chosen to engage their considerable intellectual gifts in this fight. Their work fuels my hope for Caleb's future. As I toured Dr. McCarty's lab and heard about all the incredible things happening there, I was reminded of how far we've come. Breakthroughs are happening all the time and new drugs are changing the progression of the disease. I left Emory's campus feeling hopeful, encouraged, and determined.

We're going to win. You can help. Click here.

Friday, January 29, 2016

Quick Clinic Update

I am so grateful for your outpouring of love and concern for Caleb and our family this week. Here's a quick update from yesterday's clinic appointment.

Overall, the news was good. Caleb grew a little taller, but his weight stayed the same. After several unsuccessful attempts, he finally did well on his pulmonary function test (a test that requires some serious technique!) Blood work was traumatic as usual, but over quickly thanks to the expertise and impressive focus of the nurse. Results of his liver function test and throat culture will be ready sometime next week. We're praying for good results on both!

Because Caleb is now six, he will begin taking the adult dose of Kalydeco (twice the dose he has been taking). We will continue to monitor his liver function with the increase, although we are not expecting any problems. He will also add Prevacid daily to address what appears to be mild reflux (and may be contributing to his periodic cough).

We are thrilled with the results of his chest CT. Lack of bronchiectasis is wonderful at his age. His cough has completely cleared and we have ten days left on Augmentin. If he develops another cough within the next two to three months, we will most likely proceed with the planned admission to determine what, if anything, is growing in his lungs that might be causing the cough. We are prayerful this will not be necessary, but we know that with CF, a hospital stay of this sort is inevitable. We were hoping Caleb would be older before his first admission, but ultimately want him to have the very best of care. We trust our doctors to guide us in the right direction.

Thank you for your prayers, support, love and encouragement. You have no idea how much we appreciate you! Ephesians 3:20-21

Wednesday, January 27, 2016

The Mountain Moved!

"I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there' and it will move." (Matthew 17:20)

I can hardly wrap my mind around the events of the past 48 hours. On Monday night, I requested focused intercession from family and friends on Caleb's behalf. Over the course of the next day, I received messages from countless people, telling me they would be praying with us at 8:30 on Tuesday night. I heard from family and friends across the globe. My post on Facebook was shared almost two hundred times (maybe more). I heard reports of complete strangers sharing our request among their friends and family, one woman contacting Bible study members in 161 different countries! My cousin Andy sent a video from India of his 45 no-longer-orphans praying for Caleb in their native tongue. Powerful!

I have also heard from friends for whom this request deepened and strengthened their own prayer life. It certainly had a profound impact on Darrell and I as we prayed together. This outpouring of love and support from brothers and sisters in Christ all over the world has been one of the most humbling and awe-inspiring moments of my life. What a blessing! What a privilege!

And our mountain moved.

Results came a full day earlier than we expected. Praise the Lord, our time of waiting was cut in half! Our doctor called with results this afternoon and they were better than we expected. So good, in fact, the CT tech marked the results "normal." To the trained CF practitioner's eye, Caleb has only mild peri-bronchial thickening, which is unchanged from last year's x-rays. This in itself is amazing, but it gets better. Caleb's CT scan shows no evidence of bronchiectasis, the permanent scarring of the airways that is part of the natural progression of CF lungs. His doctor said that at age six, it is extremely good to see no signs that this process has begun. She doesn't know if it's the result of his milder CF genotype or last year's addition of Kalydeco, but she is very encouraged by what she didn't see on his scan. No progression! No permanent damage! No hospital! Praise Jesus!!

We prayed for God's miraculous healing and praise the Lord, that's exactly what we got. These results are phenomenal! We stood firmly on His promises, raised our voices as one, and asked the Lord to go before us in this battle. Today we have seen His deliverance and I am overwhelmed and humbled by it.

This experience has left a permanent mark on me. I will never cease to be grateful for your generosity in sharing our request and joining us in prayer. Prayer is powerful, especially when we are leaning in to God's perfect will for our lives. I believe with all my heart that He touched Caleb's lungs last night. Thank you for being part of our miracle. My cup is running over with joy and gratitude tonight!

Wednesday, January 20, 2016

Just like that

Forty-eight hours ago Caleb seemed perfectly fine. No cough. No congestion. Today we are beginning antibiotics for the third time in as many months, a CT scan of his chest has been ordered by his doctor, and depending on the results of that scan, we may be looking at a two week hospital stay in the very near future. Our CF community optimistically refers to these "planned admissions" as "tune ups" but I have only ever seen them as something to avoid at all cost.

Today is Caleb's birthday. Instead of a party and balloons and presents and family and friends he will be doing extra treatments, taking extra medicine, and going to bed extra early. He will miss at least two, maybe three days of school this week - a fact that he is extra ticked off about because Friday is the one hundredth day of school and if you've spent any time around kindergartners, you know that's a VERY big deal.

This is what it means to be a CF mom. Life turns on a dime. Just when you take a breath and forget to worry, the rug is pulled out from under you yet again. You look around, dazed, wondering how you could have been so careless. You let your guard down, relaxed your vigilance, and now you're paying for it. You wonder if you can patch the holes in the boat one more time or if this is the time you finally sink beneath the waves.

I refuse to live my life always bracing for the next setback. I refuse to give in to the constant fear that gnaws at me every waking moment. I will not be shaken. I will stand firm and I will wait on the Lord.

I cannot do it alone. I count on the support of every one of you. Your love, your prayers, and your words of encouragement fill my cup and form my shield on days like today - days when I feel my resolve and my hope slipping through my fingers like sand.

Please pray for my sweet boy. Pray for his total and complete healing. Pray the CT scan looks better than they expect. Pray we don't have to "check in" for an extended stay at Hotel Germifornia. Pray for a calm and courageous heart, that through it all, I can still be the mom BOTH of my boys need me to be.

Thursday, January 14, 2016

Happy Birthday, Caleb!

I can't believe Caleb will be six years old next week. What a gift he is! Funny and full of life, he loves people. He draws them in with his big blue eyes and deep dimples. His world is expanding at an incredible rate as he encounters new ideas and experiences. His hardships are "just another day in the life" for him and he bears it all (mostly) with an acceptance that belies his age.

Caleb's birth opened our eyes to a world we did not know, a world where every moment counts and each day is lived with intention. We have the privilege of truly understanding what matters most to us and we try not to take anything for granted. It's hard to remember what life was like before Caleb arrived on the scene. It is sometimes messy and often chaotic, but our home is full of LIFE and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Little did we know, we gained an entire family the day Caleb was diagnosed with CF, a community of strangers who instantly became forever-friends. The CF Foundation is more than just an organization of faceless names working toward an objective goal. These people are family. Their mission is our lifeline. It's personal. Their tireless commitment to a cure for CF fuels our hope and it is a privilege to help in their efforts, no matter how great our small our contributions.

We can't wait for Great Strides this year! Our team website is already up and we are recruiting walkers (register here)!! Please join us if you can - May 21 at Georgia Tech. There is no registration fee and no minimum donation. If you can't walk with us but would still like to support Caleb's Caped Crusaders, you can make a donation using this link.

Our team t-shirts are ADORABLE this year and we will once again be selling them as a fundraiser. Let me know if you want one. Team members get theirs for FREE!

What better way to celebrate Caleb's life than to support the organization that is working so hard to save it? He asked me last week if he would live to be as old as grandfather (who lived to be 88). Because of the work of the CF Foundation, because of the commitment of countless scientists and medical professionals, and because of the generosity of private donors like you, I could honestly answer, "It's absolutely possible."

Check out this video staring Caleb!